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Cultivate A Positive Environment

Cultivate a positive environment by reading and listening to more positive information and entertainment sources, and choosing to spend time around positive people.

  • Who you choose to spend your time with and the input you get from further away like the TV, the internet and magazines will have a huge effect on your outlook.
  • To be able to stay positive it is essential to have influences in your life that support you and lift you up instead of dragging you down.
  • So carefully consider what you let into your mind.

How to stay positive: 11 Smart habits - Positivity Blog

Don't Be A Sucker

Don't be a sucker.

  • Dramatizes the destructive effects of racial and religious prejudice
  • This US National Archives educational film illustrates how extremist ideologies use prejudice to divide populations and dismantle democratic societies. It highlights the importance of protecting the rights of all citizens to safeguard individual liberty and prevent the rise of authoritarian control

Don't Be A Sucker - US National Archives - YouTube

Turn Problems Into Challenges

Turn your problems into challenges or goals that you can overcome or accomplish in order to be happier and improve your life.

  • Happy people will see problems as challenges, as opportunities to explore new ways of doing things, expressing their gratitude for them, understanding that underneath them all lay many opportunities that will allow them to expand and to grow.

15 Powerful things happy people do differently - Purpose Fairy

Connect With People On Interests

Find and meet up with people who are doing things that you are interested in doing.

  • Find people online doing interesting things, meet up with them in real life.
  • Find people who are passionate, who are building things, who are pushing themselves, who dream big, who are mindful and joyful and healthy and friendly and shy and gregarious and adventurous and curious.
  • Befriend them. Be there for them. Be helpful. Make them laugh.
  • These are your people.

Advice for people in their early 20s - Zen Habits

Autosuggestion Principle

Influence your mind positively and change your life for the better by using the principle of autosuggestion.

  • Through the dominating thoughts which one permits to remain in the conscious mind, whether these thoughts be negative or positive is immaterial, the principle of autosuggestion voluntarily reaches the subconscious mind and influences it with these thoughts.
  • Recall what has been said about the subconscious mind resembling a fertile garden spot, in which weeds will grow in abundance, if the seeds of more desirable crops are not sown therein.
  • Autosuggestion is the agency of control through which an individual may voluntarily feed his subconscious mind on thoughts of a creative nature, or, by neglect, permit thoughts of a destructive nature to find their way into this rich garden of the mind.

Think And Grow Rich - Goodreads

Exercise Every Day

Exercise every day because it improves your body, your mind, and makes you happier and more productive on the day in which you exercise.

  • A recent study from Penn State university shed some light on the matter and the results are more than surprising.
  • They found that to be more productive and happier on a given work day, it doesn’t matter so much, if you work-out regularly, if you haven’t worked out on that particular day.
  • Think about starting small and then start even smaller: Here is a little secret.
  • When I first started exercising, I did it with 5 minutes per day, 3 times a week.
  • Can you imagine that? 5 minutes of timed exercise, 3 times a week?
  • That’s nothing you might be thinking.
  • And you are right, because the task is so easy and anyone can succeed with it, you can really start to make a habit out of it.
  • Try no more than 5 or 10 minutes if you are getting started.

What happens to our brains when we exercise and how it makes us happier - Buffer

Create Daily Habits

Create daily habits and practices to improve your wellbeing, be happier, achieve goals, and make your dreams come true.

  • The only way you can make something stick is to create a habit through daily practice.
  • So if you want to exercise, set up 10 minutes every day, at the same time of day, when you’re going to do your yoga or pushups or jogging/walking.
  • Put it on the calendar, and make it an unmissable appointment.

Feeling determined to change - Zen Habits

Remember Everyone Is Emotional

Remember everyone is emotional and people are all going through the ups and downs of life, so try not to take it personally when people get angry, and try to comfort or support others when they are in a bad mood.

  • Perhaps this is an exaggeration.
  • But the core of the message is that people tend to have stronger feelings about something than they let on.
  • People who regularly have outbursts of anger, depression or flamboyant enthusiasm are generally frowned upon in most cultures.
  • This especially applies to men (for women trying to figure us out).
  • The application of this rule is to not assume everything is fine just because someone isn’t having a nervous breakdown.
  • We all have our individual problems, angst and upsets that are normally contained.

The critical 7 rules to understand people - Scott H. Young

Write Down And Read Goals

  • Think and Grow Rich is a classic motivational book.
  • Written by Napoleon Hill and inspired by Andrew Carnegie, it was published in 1937 at the end of the Great Depression.
  • In his introduction, Hill refers to the "Carnegie Secret", a conception which he reports is the foundation of all success and appears to be the premise of the book.
  • Hill promises to indirectly describe this "secret" in every chapter, but never state it plainly, believing the use of the secret is only available to those who possess a "readiness" for it, a disposition Hill describes as essential to the concept itself.

Napoleon Hill talks about "The Secret" to Think & Grow Rich - Napoleon Hill - YouTube