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Don't Criticize Or Condemn

"Don't criticize, condemn, or complain." - Dale Carnegie

  • Criticism is futile because it puts a person on the defensive and usually makes him strive to justify himself.
  • Criticism is dangerous, because it wounds a person's precious pride, hurts his sense of importance, and arouses resentment.
  • Instead of condemning people, let's try to understand them.
  • Let's try to figure out why they do what they do.
  • That's a lot more profitable and intriguing than criticism; and it breeds sympathy, tolerance and kindness.
  • "To know all is to forgive all."

How To Win Friends And Influence People - Goodreads

Have A Growth Mindset

Have a growth mindset by believing that you can grow, learn new things, improve your skills and knowledge, and realizing that temporary and recurring failure are a necessary part of learning and growing.

  • Dweck, like many adults, had learned to hide her frustration and anger, to politely say "I'm not sure I want to play this anymore" instead of knocking over the board.
  • She figured the successful kids would be the same - they’d have tactics for coping with failure instead of getting beaten down by it.
  • But what she found was radically different.
  • The successful kids didn’t just live with failure, they loved it!
  • When the going got tough, they didn’t start blaming themselves; they licked their lips and said "I love a challenge."
  • They’d say stuff like "The harder it gets the harder I need to try."

Believe you can change - Aaron Swartz

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