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Pygmalion Effect

Positively influence other people's lives by telling them you believe in them, you think they are a good person, they possess particular good qualities, and you expect they will perform well because they have the ability to do so.

  • The Pygmalion effect is a psychological phenomenon in which high expectations lead to improved performance in a given area and low expectations lead to worse.
  • It is named after the Greek myth of Pygmalion, the sculptor who fell so much in love with the perfectly beautiful statue he created that the statue came to life.
  • According to the Pygmalion effect, the targets of the expectations internalize their positive labels, and those with positive labels succeed accordingly.
  • A similar process works in the opposite direction in the case of low expectations.
  • The idea behind the Pygmalion effect is that increasing the leader's expectation of the follower's performance will result in better follower performance.
  • Within sociology, the effect is often cited with regard to education and social class.

Pygmalion Effect - Wikipedia

Self Fulfilling Prophecy

Your beliefs and thoughts influence your mind and your life, so any expectations you have about your self, your character, your abilities, your goals, and your dreams can and often will come true if you believe they will.

  • A self-fulfilling prophecy is a prediction that comes true at least in part as a result of a person's belief or expectation that said prediction would come true.
  • In the phenomena, people tend to act the way they have been expected to making the expectations come true.
  • Self-fulfilling prophecies are an example of the more general phenomenon of positive feedback loops.
  • A self-fulfilling prophecy can have either negative or positive outcomes.
  • Merely applying a label to someone or something can affect the perception of the person/thing and create a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Self-fulfilling Prophecy - Wikipedia

Begin With The End In Mind

Begin with the end of your task, goal, project, or dream in your mind by mentally envisioning it and creating a written description or picture of exactly what you want the end result to look like when the project or vision is completed.

  • To begin with the end in mind means to start with a clear understanding of your destination.
  • It means to know where you're going so that you better understand where you are now and so that the steps you take are always in the right direction.
  • "Begin with the end in mind" is based on the principle that all things are created twice.
  • There's a mental or first creation, and a physical or second creation to all things.
  • Take the construction of a home, for example.
  • You create it in every detail before you ever hammer the first nail into place.
  • You try to get a very clear sense of what kind of house you want.

The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People - Goodreads

Autosuggestion Principle

Influence your mind positively and change your life for the better by using the principle of autosuggestion.

  • Through the dominating thoughts which one permits to remain in the conscious mind, whether these thoughts be negative or positive is immaterial, the principle of autosuggestion voluntarily reaches the subconscious mind and influences it with these thoughts.
  • Recall what has been said about the subconscious mind resembling a fertile garden spot, in which weeds will grow in abundance, if the seeds of more desirable crops are not sown therein.
  • Autosuggestion is the agency of control through which an individual may voluntarily feed his subconscious mind on thoughts of a creative nature, or, by neglect, permit thoughts of a destructive nature to find their way into this rich garden of the mind.

Think And Grow Rich - Goodreads

Use Text Files For Tasks

Consider using simple text files to help you get things done and keep track of your tasks, todo lists, projects, and goals, instead of using a complicated tasks app.

  • While I love the apps mentioned above, I personally look for super simple.
  • So I’ve settled on a setup taken from Gina and Adam’s articles on Lifehacker (read the tutorials: Geek to Live and Hack Attack).
  • Text files: Basically, I organize my tasks in a series of text files.
  • That’s because they’re super simple, easy to manipulate, and small.

Amazing Mac apps for getting things done (plus a custom-rigged setup) - Zen Habits

Life Psychology Books List

Life Psychology Books 1

  1. The Hitchhiker's Guide To The Galaxy - Douglas Adams
  2. The Stranger - Albert Camus
  3. The Adventures Of Tom Sawyer - Mark Twain
  4. Catcher In The Rye - J. D. Salinger
  5. The Natural - Bernard Malamud
  6. JPod - Douglas Coupland

Life Psychology Books 2

  1. Anthem - Ayn Rand
  2. The Old Man And The Sea - Ernest Hemmingway
  3. To Kill A Mockingbird - Harper Lee
  4. Of Mice and Men - John Steinbeck
  5. Circle Of Friends - Maeve Binchy
  6. The Book of Ruth - Jane Hamilton

Life Improvement Books List

Life Improvement Books 1

  1. Think And Grow Rich - Napoleon Hill
  2. The Magic Of Thinking Big - David Schwartz
  3. Don't Sweat The Small Stuff - Richard Carlson
  4. How To Win Friends And Influence People - Dale Carnegie
  5. The 7 Habits Of Highly Effective People - Stephen Covey
  6. Getting Things Done - David Allen

Life Improvement Books 2

  1. Tao Of Jeet Kune Do - Bruce Lee
  2. Out Of My Later Years - Albert Einstein
  3. Don't Sweat The Small Stuff At Work - Richard Carlson
  4. How To Talk To AnyoneΒ - Leil Lowndes
  5. Emotional Intelligence - Daniel Goleman
  6. Painfully ShyΒ - Barbara & Gregory Markway

Cool Hip-Hop Songs

  1. Waterfalls - TLC
  2. Everything Is Everything - Lauryn Hill
  3. Killing Me Softly - Fugees
  4. Been Around The World - Puff Daddy
  5. You Got Me - The Roots
  6. Issues And Hold On - Teyana Taylor

TLC - Crazy Sexy Cool

  • Creep
  • Red Light Special
  • Waterfalls
  • Sumthin' Wicked This Way Comes

Lauryn Hill - Miseducation Of Lauryn Hill

  • Ex-Factor
  • Doo Wop
  • Everything Is Everything
  • Can't Take My Eyes Off Of You

Fugees - Score

  • Ready Or Not
  • Fu-Gee-La
  • Killing Me Softly
  • No Woman, No Cry

Puff Daddy - No Way Out

  • Been Around The World
  • It's All About The Benjamins
  • I'll Be Missing You
  • Can't Nobody Hold Me Down

The Roots - Things Fall Apart

  • The Next Movement
  • You Got Me

Teyana Taylor - K.T.S.E.

  • No Manners
  • Gonna Love Me
  • Issues And Hold On
  • Hurry

Slow Rock Songs

  1. Dreams - Cranberries
  2. If It Makes You Happy - Sheryl Crow
  3. I Still Haven't Found What I'm Looking For - U2
  4. Fields Of Gold - Sting
  5. We Might As Well Be Strangers - Keane
  6. Don't Dream It's Over - Crowded House

Cranberries - Everybody Else Is Doing It

  • Dreams
  • Linger

Sheryl Crow - Sheryl Crow

  • A Change Would Do You Good
  • If It Makes You Happy
  • Everyday Is A Winding Road
  • Superstar

U2 - Joshua Tree

  • Where The Streets Have No Name
  • I Still Haven't Found What I'm Looking For
  • With Or Without You
  • Exit

Sting - Fields Of Gold

  • When We Dance
  • Fields Of Gold
  • If I Ever Lose My Faith In You
  • Englishman In New York

Keane - Hopes And Fears

  • Somewhere Only We Know
  • We Might As Well Be Strangers
  • She Has No Time
  • Bedshaped

Crowded House - Recurring Dream

  • Weather With You
  • Locked Out
  • Don't Dream It's Over
  • Something So Strong

Slow Roots Songs

  1. Superman's Song - Crash Test Dummies
  2. Digging A Ditch - Dave Matthews Band
  3. Jack And Diane - John Mellencamp
  4. Get Out Of This House - Shawn Colvin
  5. Hasn't Hit Me Yet - Blue Rodeo
  6. Life's Too Short - Charlie Major

Crash Test Dummies - Best Of Crash Test Dummies

  • Superman's Song
  • Afternoons & Coffeespoons
  • He Liked To Feel It
  • Flying Feeling
  • Keep A Lid On Things
  • Laid Back

Dave Matthews Band - Busted Stuff

  • Grey Street
  • Where Are You Going?
  • Grace Is Gone
  • Digging A Ditch

John Mellencamp - American Fool

  • Hurts So Good
  • Jack And Diane

Shawn Colvin - Few Small Repairs

  • Sunny Came Home
  • Get Out Of This House
  • You And The Mona Lisa
  • I Want It Back
  • Suicide Alley
  • Nothin' On Me

Blue Rodeo - Five Days In July

  • Hasn't Hit Me Yet
  • Head Over Heels

Charlie Major - Other Side

  • I'm Somebody
  • It Can't Happen To Me
  • Life's Too Short
  • Nobody Gets Too Much Love