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Respect People Outside Groups

People may often do inconsiderate things when they are in groups, and people who strongly affiliate with one group of people may naturally want to harm outsiders who are not in that group.

  • When people get together in groups, unusual things can happen β€” both good and bad.
  • Groups create important social institutions that an individual could not achieve alone, but there can be a darker side to such alliances:
  • Belonging to a group makes people more likely to harm others outside the group.
  • In a study that recently went online in the journal NeuroImage, the researchers measured brain activity in a part of the brain involved in thinking about oneself.
  • They found that in some people, this activity was reduced when the subjects participated in a competition as part of a group, compared with when they competed as individuals.
  • Those people were more likely to harm their competitors than people who did not exhibit this decreased brain activity.

When Good People Do Bad Things - MIT News Office

Find Peace Of Mind

Are you looking for peace of mind? You won't find it in your status line. - Allen Stone

Are you looking for peace of mind?
You won't find it in your status line
What are you trying to prove?
Whose mountain are you trying to move?

Are you looking for security?
Validation or identity?
You won't find it in things
The more you got, oh, the less you see

Whatever keeps you occupied
Whatever gives you contact high
Whatever keeps you busy, baby
Will never make you satisfied

Contact High - Allen Stone - AZ Lyrics

Embrace Your Own Place

I'm always left of center and that's right where I belong. I'm the random minor note you hear in major songs. - Janelle Monae

Sometimes a mystery, sometimes I'm free
Depending on my mood or my attitude
Sometimes I wanna roll or stay at home
Walking contradiction, guess I’m factual and fiction

A little crazy, little sexy, little cool
Little rough around the edges but I keep it smooth
I'm always left of center and that's right where I belong
I'm the random minor note you hear in major songs

I Like That - Janelle Monae - AZ Lyrics

Serve Humanity Not Money

Superman never made any money, savin' the world from Solomon Grundy. And sometimes I despair the world will never see another man like him. - Crash Test Dummies

Hey Bob, Supe had a straight job
Even though he could have smashed through any bank in the United States,
Well he had the strength, but he would not

Superman never made any money
For saving the world from Solomon Grundy
And sometimes I despair the world will never see another man like him

- Crash Test Dummies

Superman's Song - Crash Test Dummies - AZ Lyrics

Appreciate How Everything Is Now

Don't it always seem to go, that you don't know what you've got 'til it's gone? They paved paradise, put up a parking lot. - Joni Mitchell

They took all the trees
Put 'em in a tree museum
Then they charged the people
A dollar and a half just to see 'em

Don't it always seem to go
That you don't know what you've got 'til it's gone?
They paved paradise
Put up a parking lot

Big Yellow Taxi - Joni Mitchell - AZ Lyrics

Dream The World's A Team

Oh I've been smiling lately, dreaming about the world as one. And I believe it could be, some day it's going to come. - Cat Stevens

Oh I've been smiling lately, dreaming about the world as one
And I believe it could be, some day it's going to come
Cause out on the edge of darkness, there rides a peace train
Oh peace train take this country, come take me home again
Now I've been smiling lately, thinking about the good things to come
And I believe it could be, something good has begun

Peace Train - Cat Stevens - AZ Lyrics

Choose To Be Happy

Choose to be happy with your current situation and life, as research has shown happiness may come down to your attitude and perception, not our faulty estimation of what we think we want, even big changes like getting a dream job, goal, partner, or money.

  • Dan Gilbert, author of Stumbling on Happiness, challenges the idea that we'll be miserable if we don't get what we want.
  • Our "psychological immune system" lets us feel truly happy even when things don't go as planned.

The Surprising Science Of Happiness - Dan Gilbert - YouTube

Take Hourly Breaks To Refocus

Take a quick break every hour to evaluate what you have done and refocus on what you should do next.

  • STEP 2 (1 minute every hour) Refocus.
  • Set your watch, phone, or computer to ring every hour.
  • When it rings, take a deep breath, look at your list and ask yourself if you spent your last hour productively.
  • Then look at your calendar and deliberately recommit to how you are going to use the next hour.
  • Manage your day hour by hour.
  • Don’t let the hours manage you.

An 18 minute plan for managing your day - Harvard Business Review

Turn Problems Into Challenges

Turn your problems into challenges or goals that you can overcome or accomplish in order to be happier and improve your life.

  • Happy people will see problems as challenges, as opportunities to explore new ways of doing things, expressing their gratitude for them, understanding that underneath them all lay many opportunities that will allow them to expand and to grow.

15 Powerful things happy people do differently - Purpose Fairy